Judging a person, we all know, is a trait we should not have. Forget judging – we even misjudge. I am guilty of this even though I know that it should not be done. Unintentionally I form opinions of persons only after meeting them for a few minutes – boring, smart, introvert, flirty – my list can go on. And more often than not, I have been proven wrong. It is something I am fully aware I should not be doing, and am working on it, but something I keep repeating…bad girl!
I have been having minimal interactions at work with a certain person whom I had branded “weird, boring and an introvert” whom I was sure I did nothing in common with. And then fate put us both in a car – alone – on a three hour journey. Oh how wrong could I be! Not totally wrong, mind you, he is an introvert. But he is definitely not weird or boring. He is a world traveler, has a very good taste in music and a good conversationalist. Not great, but good. I realized that he did not speak unless he was asked something, which could have been the reason I found him boring initially. But when he got talking, he could be so detailed and so vivid in his description that it amazed me. I would classify the trip I took with him as being anything but boring.
And when I was back in my bed, pondering about my day, the good, the bad and the ugly things I did and said, the people I hurt, the people I made happy and the people I misjudged. How ashamed I was of myself…and I made myself a promise to make another attempt to stop judging people. I am sure you would know how unsuccessful I have been about this.
Preparation Time: 2 hours
Serves 6
Ingredients:
1 whole Chicken, skinned and cut into small pieces about 1 1/4"
7 tablespoons Vegetable oil
4 Onions, medium, chopped
4 ½ tablespoons Coriander powder
1 ½ cup Coconut, grated
12 Garlic pods, crushed
1 teaspoon Turmeric powder
3 teaspoons Red chilli powder
Handful of Cilantro with stems
1 Tomato, large, chopped
1 Lime, juice
½ cup Coconut milk, unsweetened
4 Onions, medium, chopped
4 ½ tablespoons Coriander powder
1 ½ cup Coconut, grated
12 Garlic pods, crushed
1 teaspoon Turmeric powder
3 teaspoons Red chilli powder
Handful of Cilantro with stems
1 Tomato, large, chopped
1 Lime, juice
½ cup Coconut milk, unsweetened
Salt to taste
Dry spice powder:
18 Cloves
1 ½ inch cinnamon
18 Cloves
1 ½ inch cinnamon
5 Cardamom
1 ½ teaspoon Anise
1 ½ teaspoons Poppy seeds (Khas Khas)
½ nutmeg fresh powdered
1 ½ teaspoon Anise
1 ½ teaspoons Poppy seeds (Khas Khas)
½ nutmeg fresh powdered
3 Star anise
Method:
- Grind the marination ingredients to a fine paste. Marinate the chicken with the above paste for about an hour
- Fry the dry paste in 1 tablespoon oil for a minute and half, except poppy seeds. Make sure none of the spices burn, otherwise they will turn bitter. Grind the dry spices to a fine powder including the poppy seeds.
- Add 3 tablespoons oil in a medium sized pot and fry half the onions till golden brown. Then add 2 tablespoons coriander powder and fry for another minute. Remove from heat and set aside
- In another pan lightly brown 1 ½ cup grated coconut. In a blender incorporate the coconut and onion mix (from 3) with the dry spice powder (from 2) and grind the mix to a very fine paste. Ensure that the coconut is completely ground so it is not gritty between fingers
- To the pot (from 3), add 2 ½ tablespoons oil and fry the remaining onions until golden brown. Add the crushed garlic pods and cook for a minute. To this add turmeric, coriander and chilli powder and mix well
- Immediately add tomato. Roast till tomatoes are softened
- Add the cut up chicken pieces with half to one cup water and mix all the above ingredients thoroughly
- Add ground coconut paste (from 4) along with the lime
- Stir in the ½ cup unsweetened coconut milk
- Cover and cook on low to medium heat until chicken is thoroughly cooked about 30 minutes
- Serve with Indian flatbread and basmati rice
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